hello, currently my family and i are searching for a new church "home". allow me to tell you a little about us. we are committed christians. i have been saved for 25 years and my wife has been saved for 15. we have three children whom we have instructed in the faith and our oldest has been saved by grace, and we are currently praying for our 2 younger children to come to saving faith by the grace of God.
we have been very active in our 2 previous churches. we have ministered in music, and teaching children and teen-agers. we have been involved with missions work, and we currently find our best ministry opportunities in our work places.
we are reformed, but not dogmatic. we are not cessationist, but rather hold an open but very very cautious approach to the miraculous gifts. we are well versed theologically, and are able to discuss out theological differences without arguing about them. we know what the essentials of christianity are and we know what they are not.
here are a few things we are not looking for in a new church:
a country club where we must win friends and impress others
a multi-million dollar building that is used a few times a week
paid musicians that make worship of God a concert to listen to
songs with lyrics that could be sung to a boyfriend or girlfriend
a place where we have to wear name tags so others will remember our names
a leadership that runs a business rather than ministering to a body of believers
huge multi-media sermon events
feel good theology, self help phyco-bable, or purpose driven anything (except for the new tablecloth and napkin sets)
ranting against the horrible sins of our day (homosexuality, abortion, and liberal democrats)
here are the things we are looking for:
authenticity
genuine concern and action for and in our community
sound theologically correct teaching
a pastor who will care for us and forge a relationship with us that may take years to mature
a worship service that is God centered
a place where the main concern is not how much money you give, but rather if you are becoming more like Christ.
ranting against the horrible sins of our day (selfishness, greed, apathy)
and finally a place that knows grace and that all of us are on the same level playing field, we are all sinners in need of a savior, there are no good christians or bad christians just christians.
although there are many other things we are looking for, this is what we need.
i anxiously await your reply, your fellow servant of Christ,
shayno